[Online] Ethical Non-Monogamy: Relational Therapy for Throuples, Quads and More
Date: 9:00am - 4:00pm SST September 12 Location: Online
What is ethical non-monogamy, and how does it differ from polyamory, open relationship and/or relational anarchy? How can therapists effectively support and adapt their existing knowledge to better service this traditionally underserved population? How are the relationship problems faced by this population similar and different from dynamics observed in couples?
Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) have been increasing in the United States, with 4-5% of the adult population currently part of an ENM relationship. Portland, Oregon has a much higher rate, being one of the focal cities of the polyamorous community. Despite this, the mental health field has not prepared therapists for doing “couples” work with throuples, quads or individuals in ENM relationships.
“Couples therapy” has been created and taught with a deep implicit assumption that intimate relationships of adults are between only two people. This has left therapists ill-prepared for the relational needs of many clients resulting in clients being referred and more harmfully the polyamory and ENM communities avoiding therapy due to harmful interactions with a therapist. This workshop is designed to empower the therapist to better serve the needs of the polyamorous and ENM communities.
Participants will learn:
- Understand the socio-historic context of polyamory and ENM clarifying needs and terminology.
- Examine and improve the role of the therapist as an ally and advocate the polyamorous and ENM communities.
- Integrate social justice and existential-humanistic principles into existing modalities to better meet the needs of polyamorous and ENM clients.
Workshop at a Glance
9-10:30 a.m. | Zoom Online Session
Introduction, Questions, Roadmap for the Day, What Brings Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) to the Office, Introduction to Terminology (Small Groups Online)
10:30 a.m.-2 p.m. | Self-guided Learning / Lunch Break
History of Ethical Non-Monogamy, Children and Family Issues, a possible Life Span Developmental Model of Ethical Non-Monogamy. Presenter will be available for questions/clarifications.
2-3:30 p.m. | Case Study Small Group
A Case Study to Conceptualize, Adapting to Throuples, Quads, Ws, Vs, etc.
3:30-4 p.m. | Closing Session , Q&A, Additional Resources
Details & Registration
Date: Saturday, September 12, 2020, 9 a.m.- 4 p.m. Instructor: Justin Rock, LPC
Cost: $125 by 8/20, $150 after. Includes 6 CEUs. Lewis & Clark Alumni, Adjunct Professors and School-Based Mentors save 20%. $50 student rate. Free for Lewis & Clark Clinical Supervisors.
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Please note: Discounted ‘Student Rate’ registrations are for current students only and do not include continuing education credit (CEU/PDUs)
Registration for this class will close one week prior to start date.
About the Instructor
Rooted in a formal education in philosophy, over the past 12 years, Justin’s professional career in Counseling Psychology has focused on combining work with families, couples and individuals in his private practice as well as being an adjunct professor at Lewis & Clark College for the past 4 years where he teaches on topics ranging from diagnostics and assessments to polyamory.
Justin holds a Master of Arts degree from Lewis & Clark College in Counseling Psychology where he completed both the Counseling Psychology and Marriage, Couples and Family programs. He earned his undergraduate degree in philosophy at Lewis & Clark College with specific focus on phenomenology, existentialism and philosophy of mind. This philosophical foundation resulted in Justin becoming a practitioner and strong advocate of existential-humanistic therapy resulting in him becoming a founder and board member of Existential-Humanistic Northwest, a professional organization advocating existential-humanistic values and philosophies, that, after 8 years actively enriches the Pacific Northwest mental health community with a wide range of events, trainings, information and support.
When Justin is not teaching at Lewis & Clark or seeing clients in his private practice, he spends most of his time coaching an all girls ice hockey team, woodworking or cooking for his friends and family. Having traveled extensively throughout his life, Justin loves to learn how different cultures deal with life’s mundane and consistently human-challenges in different or similar ways.